http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ Bad Boy Forum: Last 35 Posts en Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:06:58 +0000 http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-2004 Tue, 06 Jan 2009 08:44:52 +0000 chainsaw 2004@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>look at my post in this thread </p> <p><a href="http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=298&#38;replies=22" rel="nofollow">http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=298&#38;replies=22</a></p> <p>and this post too:</p> <p><a href="http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=338&#38;replies=5" rel="nofollow">http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=338&#38;replies=5</a></p> <p>and bear in mind that 3 years ago that was absolutely not possible for me. Now it is and similar things happened to me already a couple of times. We talk about having sex with girls not saying "hi" to them.</p> <p>However at the beginning I had a phase for a little bit longer than a year of constant going out every night without any success at all. No make outs, no numbers, no sex, nothing! Before that I had a 3 year phase of sexlessness. It is not easy but the the benefits are great and the freedom you get out of it is worth it. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-2003 Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:44:25 +0000 Carrot 2003@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I simply *had* to log in so that I could reply to this post.</p> <p>I've been doing the exercises for about 10 days now.</p> <p>Results?</p> <p>Made out with two girls.<br /> Could have gotten laid several times if I wanted to, but I didn't want to. Know that I can when I want to.<br /> Feeling awesome almost all of the time.<br /> Flirting just starts to happen everywhere I go. I don't start it, she doesn't start it, it just starts happening.<br /> I'm feeling significantly better about my past, my present, and my future.<br /> I'm having more fun with women than I ever have in my life.<br /> I am in a better mood on average.<br /> I effortlessly dominate almost everywhere I go just by being there.</p> <p>Am I going to keep doing the exercises?</p> <p>Umm...</p> <p>Hell yeah!</p> <p>If this is what 10 days is like, I can only imagine the future glory. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=377#post-2002 Mon, 05 Jan 2009 20:43:14 +0000 SexyDrippage 2002@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Evidently, the subconscious mind doesn't recognize a negative such as "not". So what you're really saying with that affirmation is "I care what others think of me". Say something like "I know what's best for me and I act on it". </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-2001 Mon, 05 Jan 2009 20:32:07 +0000 SexyDrippage 2001@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I really can't say anything that anyone else hasn't said. But this book really helps me: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Nature-Personal-Reality-Practical-Techniques/dp/1878424068/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231187318&#38;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Nature-Personal-Reality-Practical-Techniques/dp/1878424068/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231187318&#38;sr=8-1</a></p> <p>It's definitely not a book for everyone, though. But it's utterly surprising just how much Cory's cd's coincide with the information therein. It might help you with your inner beliefs and rooting them out.</p> <p>However, if you like that book, read the follow-up to it: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Individual-Nature-Mass-Events-Seth/dp/1878424211/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231187505&#38;sr=1-8" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Individual-Nature-Mass-Events-Seth/dp/1878424211/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231187505&#38;sr=1-8</a></p> <p>I also really like this book: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Law-Attraction-Science-Attracting-More/dp/0446199737/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231188594&#38;sr=1-5" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Law-Attraction-Science-Attracting-More/dp/0446199737/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&#38;s=books&#38;qid=1231188594&#38;sr=1-5</a><br /> especially the "I'm in the process of..." affirmation. Such as for those affirmations you're having a difficult time believing, like "I'm in the process of being a sexy mother fucker" if that's something you have a hard time believing.</p> <p>Actually, since Laces won't be trying this stuff out, ever again, maybe these books might be useful to others. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=377#post-2000 Mon, 05 Jan 2009 09:31:22 +0000 Greg 2000@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Yea I guess that is a valid point. I see it as "not giving a shit" is it's own thing. I don't see it like "not" and "giving a shit". Kuz if you don't have an affirmation that directly addresses the problem, how will you fix it? </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=377#post-1999 Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:39:27 +0000 phook 1999@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>lol<br /> well.. why i asked is because when u focusing something u dont want it will bring more into your reality because our unconscience mind can't feature a negative</p> <p>an classic example would be if i ask u to stop thinking of a pink elephant.. what u do, u think a pink elephant..</p> <p>so i think its best i say in my affirmation<br /> i live my live how i want to live </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1998 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 22:40:13 +0000 GoldenHawk 1998@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I just fear that I will waste too much time into superficial things like clothes and getting ready front of mirror. Of course this do not mean that I will go out in a dirty clothes and smell like bum. My goal is just get goog-looking clothes like leather jacket, white T-shirt, great-looking manly belt and black Levinks. I do not want to waste too much time into clothes because I know my style.</p> <p>Also I fear that working out wastes too much my time. I am hedoistical man. I like good food, video-games and suprise... women. Also I am a little bit lazy and that's why working out is not my thing. I hope that if I do not like working out or being like metrosexual, I do not respect myself. </p> <p>I still think that when I am truly sexy motherfucker it does not matter what kind of clothes I use or whether I working out or not.</p> <p>Sorry when I sound provocative sometimes. When I notice something that I don't like, sometimes it is just hard to be "It's okay" In nightclubs that sucks because when something makes me "egoistical fucked up case" I can't get over it soon. My hole evening will be ruined. This is one of my major problems. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1997 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:53:06 +0000 BachelorBrit 1997@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I do everything you mentioned I work out daily (with 1 or 2 days off) for about an hour and I actually enjoy it. Having a more toned stronger body makes you feel like a sexy motherfucker and it can only increase your self esteem. Hell I can look in the mirror naked and feel attractive. It's all very basic stuff but I do make sure I look good before I step outside my house you just do when you appreciate yourself more, before I didn't care I wore anything why? because I didn't like myself or believe in myself. Things have changed though thank god. Everytime I say "I am a sexy motherfucker" when looking in the mirror I can't help but grin. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1996 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:15:11 +0000 vagabond88 1996@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Goldenhawk, I don't know if it's just me, or if there's another reason why there are 28 posts on some thread you started about being an "egoistical fucked up case." I don't mean to sound harsh when I say that, but you guys have to listen to what Cory is saying. I'm not coming up with this stuff, Cory mentions all of this. Even if not all of you have the Magnetic Mindset CD, there are plenty of articles and audio files around this website that offer plenty of information.</p> <p>Cory mentions how he goes to the gym everyday. It's a proven fact, working out releases chemicals into your brain that make you feel good! Testosterone also gets released into your body.</p> <p>He also mentions how sometimes he'll be like a girl taking up to half an hour to get ready, looking in the mirror making sure he looks good before he goes out!</p> <p>If you can't respect yourself enough to take care of yourself, women will not respect you.</p> <p>It's true, this stuff is all about inner game. But if all this inner game stays on the 'inside', and no changes are made on the 'outside', then it's all for nothing. You guys have to be willing to change if you want your lifestyles to change. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1995 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:10:46 +0000 GoldenHawk 1995@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Laces, do you know any better way to become sexy motherfucker? I think you do not know. So it is better just do the affirmations and kinda "forget" them after you have done. Then just go some bar and have fun. It is so simply. There are no better ways so just do your affirmations. :)</p> <p>I know it is hard to become lady's man. I was out 5 times in a week and I did not even kiss a woman. I felt like shit because I do not why but some things just damaged my mood. But still I will do my affirmations.</p> <p>I have kissed over 30 women and fucked two last year. In the year 2007 I haven't even kiss a woman. </p> <p>All my succes came when I started to do affirmations. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1994 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 19:58:29 +0000 ronatello 1994@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Everybody will have different learning curves in all of this. For some, this is a BIG change... in the way we interact with others, the way we think, and the way we perceive the world and others around us. My goal in all of this is to be the best man I can be and that of course is to be confident and sexually confident. I have come from a background riddled with negativity. 20+ friggin' years of it! It won't go away in the blink of an eye. I have to work at this everyday and some days are better than others. I think every once in a while, we just need to step back and re assess what we are doing. No, I don't have "it" right now but someday I will. I will be patient in all of this and learn everyday. I can say that ever since posting here and reading posts, and listening to Cory's podcasts, I have learned more in the last 2 1/2 months than I have in my whole life. Some days are good, and others are like, oh shoot a pickle! A lot of you guys here have been an inspiration to me and I really appreciate your support. You probably don't realize it but it's true! </p> <p>vagabond88: that was totally awesome! And you said it yourself: BE YOURSELF! And I'll restate one of my affirmations / epiphanies once more:<br /> You ARE what you believe yourself to be. It sounds to me like you believe yourself to be a sexually desirable man. Guess what? YOU ARE! </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1993 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 18:39:14 +0000 GoldenHawk 1993@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>"You're not gonna get laid looking like a slob."</p> <p>Luckily, you do not need to look like metrosexual before you can get laid. You just need to have strong inner game and then you will get laid like rockstar. </p> <p>I do not shave, I do not use much money to clothes and I do not work out. I just want good-looking clothes. That's all. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1992 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:04:54 +0000 vagabond88 1992@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Hey man, I definitely agree with you about too many men kissing up to women and doing something they wouldn't normally want to do just to please them. </p> <p>However, if you want to attract women into your life, you can't expect to not make changes. If you normally stay in your apartment playing videogames all day you're not gonna attract anything to you. You have to start incorporating certain habits that will make you a more attractive man. That includes working out regularly, grooming yourself, and getting clothes that look good on you. Basically making yourself a sexier guy. </p> <p>Guys, I don't do these things just to please women. I do it to please myself. Now I'm not saying you shouldn't do what you enjoy, like playing videogames or whatever if that's what you like, but you have to do certain things that will attract women into your life. And with this mindset of being a sexy motherfucker in my head, it gets uncomfortable for me when my outside isn't in alignment with what I'm thinking, i.e, if I haven't taken a shower, if I haven't shaved, if I'm not dressed well, if I haven't worked out in a while.</p> <p>And BB, get a woman who is fashionable to take you clothes shopping. I don't know what you mean by guys who dress like homosexuals, but a lot of these gay guys really take care of themselves. There's nothing wrong with being a metrosexual, it shows you care about how you look, and guys who are sexy motherfuckers take care of themselves. You're not gonna get laid looking like a slob.</p> <p>But you are spot on about pussywhipped men. Change because you want it, not because you're trying to impress someone. If you make these changes for someone else, you have the wrong idea. Change because you want to, impress yourself not anyone else. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1991 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:39:03 +0000 vagabond88 1991@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Yeah man, this is totally the wrong way to approach it. Obviously you have a lot of negative programming going on. I mean you just replied to one of my posts about affirmations about a day ago saying, and I quote: "I stopped because I was getting too bored of them and found that I seemed to get into my head again." By not doing these affirmations daily, you set yourself back. You allow those negative thoughts that have been circulating in your head for years come back. </p> <p>Also, you mention something about being "a guy who does nothing and doesnt care about it either." You aren't supposed to do "nothing." You're supposed to go out there, get out of your apartment, and get into alignment with what you want. You want to be a sexy motherfucker, so make sure you look good! Work out, dress well, groom yourself. And to meet women, you have to go out to where they are. Getting the mindset down is one thing, but getting into alignment with this new mindset is just as important. </p> <p>Also, I don't know where these stats are flying in from, "the very least 95% of us aren't getting laid." Speak for yourself man. Just because lay reports, or whatever the community calls them, aren't thrown around here doesn't mean it's not happening. The "community" is so outcome oriented that they need "lay reports" to validate themselves. We're here working on our inner game, because that's where real success comes from. Like danyboy said, the guys that are good don't kiss and tell. </p> <p>But I'll make a quick exception. If you want success stories, how bout this for success. I was pulling an all-nighter in my living room to study for an exam, when my roommate comes home from the club with this cute girl he was bringing home. Now my roommate is a very good looking guy, I'd consider him better looking than me on a physical level. Anyway, so I was completely ignoring them, I was busy studying. Long story short, this girl, who I literally met 3 minutes before, as soon as my roommate walked out the room, started making out with me (and other things) out of nowhere. I had to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING but be myself. Anyway, let's just say I didn't do too well on that exam the next day... And she can't have enough me, she texts me just about everyday. And that's a story of me not even leaving my house and having success!</p> <p>Bottom line guys, this is the real deal. And if laces doesn't ever see this post, I hope the rest of you don't get demoralized by some of the things that were said on this topic. If you need inspiration, listen to this interview between Cory and a student of his. </p> <p><a href="http://www.badboywithaheart.com/audio/oneonone.MP3" rel="nofollow">http://www.badboywithaheart.com/audio/oneonone.MP3</a></p> <p>You can just here "it", in both of these guys' voices. Very inspiring stuff! Keep it up everybody! </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=375#post-1990 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 15:49:36 +0000 BachelorBrit 1990@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Yeah I know for next time I guess I was shocked I didn't think women would approach me because lets face it most women don't approach most men. That was my mindset in action I guess the results don't lie. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1989 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 15:37:09 +0000 BachelorBrit 1989@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I know where you are coming from but it's important not to through in the towel. It's your choice of course but to be honest I don't have the success I would like right now but that is partly due to the fact I don't go out enough. However I am really starting to realize that there are women everywhere I go that are atrracted to me. What I can say is that the affirmations are amazing they have built up a great amount of confidence within myself and I real do see myself as a sexy motherfucker. The more you pratice the affirmations the more powerful your mindset will be, for example if you think you are a loser (like I have most of my life) and say that to yourself for years you WILL feel like one. If you constantly believe you are the shit a girl magnet you will believe that totally if you continue to repeat those beliefs. It all makes sense without a good/strong mindset in any aspect of your life you won't suceed body language and eye contact are important too but really the mindset is the most critical part of being successful with women and everything else. You have to believe deep down that you are a sexually desirable man and women desire you everywhere you go and to never doubt that which I think can be the hardest part to truly believe. I won't go over everything again but I have had some good results and more attention, looks, stares etc from women since starting all this. Some things I have experienced never seemed possible before but when you change your mindset it opens up a new world.</p> <p>Also I don't think trying to find more techniques and methods are helpful I wasted years reading rubbish on the internet but I always felt they didn't feel natural so I kept looking for the next thing and the next etc. Fuck it Cory has pretty much told us what to do guys to be better with women it won't be easy because it will probably take a while to get to where you want to be. If Cory releases some new product I might check them out but otherwise I won't be searching for more stuff because Cory even said there are no special lines, methods and all taht bullshit in making you a ladies man. You could say affirmations are the secret in one sense because most guys generally don't have the right mentality when with women. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=378#post-1988 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 15:20:47 +0000 BachelorBrit 1988@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I have brought up this topic because I think this is really important if you are working towards being a real sexually desirable man. Basically don't buy into this bullshit the media keeps feeding us guys all the time. Sadly too many men now are becoming feminized just look around at how they behave or dress metrosexuality is considered okay like it's alright for straight guys to dress like a homosexual. In fact it's getting so bad that I often avoid shopping for new clothes because the latest trends for men are so girly and feminine and amazingly I see guys wearing these sort of clothes everywhere I go. Women want strong men they always have and always will strong, confident and men who are masculine win over the other guys everytime. I am sure Cory can agree with me on this 100%. </p> <p>Another result of Political Correctness is men being pussywhipped and so many guys are now it's ridiculous. A classic example of being pussywhipped is when a guy gives up things for women he enjoys like I enjoy videogames not as much as before but so do friends I knew from college. I knew this one guy who threw out his games console just because his girlfriend said to or other men who ditched some of their friends because women asked them to. When you are a sexy motherfucker and love yourself completely you don't do these things period. Do you know a common trait with bad boys or ladies men? They don't cater to women or EVER change themselves for anyone especially women and guess what women want these guys even more because of these reasons alone. Think about it. Women test guys as you know most men fail these tests but when you learn to say no more with doing things for women or changing yourself for them that makes you pretty powerful and will make you a sexually desirable man in a womans eyes. Like Cory says men who are good with women are selfish and that's why in my opinion they are rare because these guys never listened to society or do what at least 98% of men do with women.</p> <p>It would be good to hear your views on this. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1987 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 12:46:13 +0000 danyboy 1987@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Ok, man.<br /> I think you totally missing the point here. Look at yourself from a year ago and then ask yourself, have you changed? I did. I met some girls from my hometown that i haven't seen for a long time and they all said: "You changed, you grew, you have become a man." Greatest compliments ever!<br /> It is not about "people "looking" at girls or saying hi and nothing else". It is about this unexplainable connection i really can't describe it in words but you have this incredible feeling in your stomach that is a hundred times better than getting a phone number or fuck this girl although it nearly always can lead to it.<br /> So Success Stories: I don't like to write them because it always sounds like bragging but here is one:<br /> I was out with two friends and we were hanging out in this disco. So i was just chillin, scanning the room and this cute girl was dancing on the box close to our table. So we made a little bit eye contact and two other guys tried to dance with her but she was kind of resistant. So i really didn't care that much and had fun with my friends and all of a sudden she stands next to me on the floor and stares at me. So i said Hi and the first thing that came out of her mouth was: You're so hot, i can't believe this. Can i have your number? So to make it short, we were making out after a few minutes and she started to open my pants in the disco until the bouncer said we should leave beacause they were closing. :-) We didn't noticed that all around us all the people were already gone. And the rest i think you can imagine.<br /> So i don't get me wrong i'm still not at the level that i want to be, but all you are doing is focusing on the things that didn't work instead on the things that worked or improved. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1986 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 10:21:10 +0000 rx8dude 1986@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>its amazing how my success has been lately i just came back from the club and this girl was waiting for me to get there because she didnt want dance with anyone else and i ve only met this chick like a week and half or so. But its all about believing in yourself and knowting your a sexy motherfucker women will feel the same way about you i havent felt so great about myself and success in a long time guys. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1985 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 08:13:34 +0000 Meditate 1985@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Take care and good luck man. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1984 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 07:57:12 +0000 saddleup 1984@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>"If you can't handle the heat, get out of the kitchen."<br /> This isn't a simple process. There are no secret tricks to getting in a girl's pants. If you don't give a crap anymore, then take a break, like Spike says. I have been in some what of a drought, but your validation should not be coming from women. I would love a vagina in my face right now, but it's not, and I'm okay with that- But I do have 2 girls regularly texting me. I also visited a strip club tonight. I'm also drunk atm fwiw. Good luck pal. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1983 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:59:31 +0000 Spike 1983@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Thanks Laces, for your kind advice over the past couple of months. A break from here probably isn't a bad idea. Look after yourself, be the best man you can be, and don't worry about the women. When one falls in your lap, which she will, I am confident that you will know what to do. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1982 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:27:01 +0000 rx8dude 1982@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>well i can say i am im talking 2 girls right now and just having fun with just lettin things happen. Right now im suppose to go meet one at a club. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1981 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:43:57 +0000 Henny 1981@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Good post laces. I would say at the very least 95% of us aren't getting laid, or not having the type of success we would like to have with women. Not saying this stuff is bullshit, but how many of you guys are happy with your results thus far? How many of you are getting laid, got a girlfriend, or can attract most of the women you interact with. Please be honest. </p> <p>I have the CDs, and haven't attended a bootcamp, or seminar. I have been consistently doing the 3 types of affirmations for six weeks now. 0 phone numbers, 0 making out, blow jobs, hand jobs or intercourse. I know I can get women. I just got out of a two year relationship, and had some decent success before that.</p> <p>If anyone has had any success with this, let us know. I'm not talking about how you feel inside, I'm talking attracting and getting physical. I would also like to know how long you have been doing the affirmations, and if you have been consistent. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1980 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:36:45 +0000 rx8dude 1980@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Listen man i could defintely tell you have inner belief problems and dont believe this works. Of couse you going to have the sucess gettng is gona be very minimal. i myself never post on here but i can say this stuff is amazing i know it works and i know im getting what i want literally. i have literally attrated women to me without doing a damm thing. I work for wireless commucations dont want to say who but i after fully breaking up with my girlfriend i have girls that i have helped or whatever actually call me or texting me wanting to hang out that day.This i know sounds out of the ordinary but it has happened i did attend a boot camp back in june but had a lot of stuff going on so id didnt have all the success i been having till a bout a month and its awesome i have done things this last week that i never thought i could do defintely getting outside my comfortzone at clubs.etc. end of story is you lost hope on youself and really need to consider this have fatih in yourself and talk to cory because you need to change your mindset </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=377#post-1979 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:17:59 +0000 Greg 1979@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Uh if you don't care what others think, then why are you asking if the affirmationis ok!?</p> <p>I'm just messin with u, of course it is a good one, why wouldn't it be? </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=377#post-1978 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 02:12:19 +0000 phook 1978@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>im new to this.. and im planning to do my affrimations today..</p> <p>one of the many things i want in my life is i don't care what others think so in my affirmation i'll say something like<br /> 'i don't care what others think of me'</p> <p>does that sound ok? </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=376#post-1977 Sun, 04 Jan 2009 01:27:33 +0000 laces 1977@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Ok,guys.<br /> Im pretty disappointed to write this but this is the last time I will ever be posting.<br /> Im not going to be doing,reading or trying any more of this stuff again.<br /> In my mind its all a load of bullshit.<br /> I dont want to offend anyone or piss anyone off but just look at what is happening.<br /> Whats anyones goal in this?There are no real success stories at all from anyone whos supposed to be "learning" this stuff.I take a success story as "I talked to this girl,got her number then met up with her and fucked her".But all we keep seeing is stories all over the shop of people "looking" at girls or saying hi and nothing else.<br /> Whats the point if your not trying to fuck these girls?<br /> And dont worry,Im totally included there.I have become a guy who does nothing and doesnt care about it either,because at the end of the day,what really changes?Nothing ever happens and nothing ever gets better.Sure,I get a little buzz out of talking to a new,hot girl but at the end of the day why put all tis effort into something that becomes nothing?(And before you all start about this being "not about women",have the balls to look at yourself for the real reasons you are here.Yes,its all about the pussy.)<br /> You need to ask youself are you really changing and are things really inproving?<br /> Or are you satisfied with little missions that still keep you in the same place but make you feel a little better?<br /> Good luck to all you guys and I hope you all get what you want.<br /> Im just saying,look outside of this "game" and self improvement shit at the real world and then decide if any of it is really helping you.<br /> Cheers<br /> Laces </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=375#post-1976 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 20:28:05 +0000 Spike 1976@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>The reason why you do not know for sure if she was interested is because you failed to lead. You did not say 'hi.' You missed your move.</p> <p>You did, however, do an amazing job with the eye game. Give yourself a pat on the back for the good 'work' you did, learn from the experience and say something to the girl next time she falls in your lap. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=375#post-1975 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 18:16:10 +0000 BachelorBrit 1975@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>I have no idea whether she was interested for sure or what. I did look her in the eyes a few times but I didn't stare at her. There were more seats empty near me so I would of thought If she didn't like me making any sort of eye contact that she would of moved further away from me and not right next to me. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=373#post-1974 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 18:09:21 +0000 BachelorBrit 1974@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Spike like you said just letting go and caring less about getting contact works a lot better. The mindset is powerful it's crazy like yesterday after getting something to eat in the mall I was sitting and look straight ahead and see this woman looking at me in the eyes then stopped looking when her husband/boyfriend arrived, I noticed another girl in a group on another table nearby was looking at me as well and I wasn't really doing anything. </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=345#post-1973 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 17:46:27 +0000 danyboy 1973@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Hey badapprentice,<br /> Great point man.<br /> Another question: You really have it nailed down as i read your posts. Do you have time to meet? Because you live in Switzerland which is not that far away and i can't afford a bootcamp with Cory. If you have the time shoot me an e-mail: <a href="mailto:danyboy_reg@web.de">danyboy_reg@web.de</a> or just send me your e-mail.<br /> Thanks in advance </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=373#post-1972 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 16:32:41 +0000 badapprentice 1972@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>Alright guys, I get your point. I never go shopping just to hit eye contact with girls, but I do love to go shopping, and it happens there quite regularly. Whether it happens or not is actually more a question of my current mindset than anything else.</p> <p>However, the good thing about shopping is that there are all kinds of opportunities to start a conversation. On a busy sidewalk, there are also some, but it is much more difficult.</p> <p>--BA </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=375#post-1971 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 16:26:05 +0000 badapprentice 1971@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>BB, was the woman sitting just opposite of you, i.e. something like five or six feet away, facing in your direction?</p> <p>There are two possible interpretations if that was the case. The first is that you made her uncomfortable by constantly looking at her and she rather preferred a seat where she was not sitting facing you. The second is that she wanted to talk to you, but then, if she only was a short distance away and facing you, that would have been a better place to start to talk, so I am not sure about that.</p> <p>--BA </p> http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/topic.php?id=375#post-1970 Sat, 03 Jan 2009 16:18:59 +0000 Spike 1970@http://badboywithaheart.com/forum/ <p>You didn't see any reason why this girl would move? Have you not been learning the most basic things from this forum? Slap yourself.</p> <p>If you didn't say 'hi' to this girl after she sat next to you, please slap yourself for not being a man and never let that happen again.</p> <p>Yes, that was an amazing thing that happened. You caused it to happen, then you dropped the ball. The girl did something very brave only to find out that you had no balls. All you would have had to do is say 'hi, hey, what's happening, or how's everything', and a nice conversation would have started. She would have done most of the talking, so it would have been easy. In the end, you would have asked her for her number. Okay, slap yourself again... now slap yourself one more time. Please don't disappoint a girl like this again.</p> <p>With that said, congratulations for reaching the next level :) </p>